The other day, I was taking a stroll near a busy street. During my walk, I noticed that a particular popular motor park was built on a reclaimed refuse dump. For a moment, I tried picturing with my mind’s eye what the proprietor of the park must have seen, while that piece of land was nothing more than a stinking pile of refuse. I’m very sure that after taking consideration of its strategic location, the proprietor must have seen his park standing on the piece of land that was still a refuse dump as at the time he was observing.
Back in 2016, I was just another post-NYSC university graduate in Bayelsa State, who was overworked and underpaid. In fact, my salary was so embarrassingly low, that I chose to inflate the tithe I was paying to my pastor. And to make matters even more interesting, my former boss is still owing me a month’s salary till this very day. By the way, if you are worrying what the salary was… It was ₦30,000!!! (That’s less than $100 a month, if you live outside Nigeria). Right now, I am in the US, currently running my Masters program. Now, I am
Over the course of the last couple of months, I have deliberately reduced Facebook consumption. Occasionally, you may see status updates on my Facebook wall. This is because my Twitter account is linked to my Facebook account. In the rare occasion that I tweet or retweet a post, that action is replicated on Facebook too! I have tried so much to unlink the two social media accounts no avail, so, I guessed I might as well leave it the way it is. My decision to reduce my Facebook consumption is backed by a few reasons which you may also want to
There is a powerful concept that can change the quality of your relationships, as well as your life as it did mine. In fact, I can wholeheartedly say that this is one of the most valuable concepts that I have personally learned to apply to my life. Here it is: If you ever want to attain any level of success, self-confidence and prosperity in your life and relationships, you need to learn to brainwash yourself! Yes, I just said that! Brainwash yourself! Brainwash Yourself, Or Others Will A harsh reality you have to be conscious of is the fact that
Do you want to be wise? Are you searching for counsel for your life? What if I told you this: You are wiser than you think and you can do far greater that what you are allowing yourself to do. This is because you have counsel wrapped up within your spirit at every given time! I believe the Bible is the most potent book in this world. It has the power to turn your life and destiny around for the best! I used to be a bit wary of quoting the Bible too much on this site, because I felt
Marriage, Marriage, Marriage…. So, you’re a married man. Congratulations! Being married can be awesome and liberating. You get to spend the rest of your life with your best friend and someone who complements you completely – it’s tremendous. The thing about marriage is that it actually provides a framework for you to thrive and flourish, to become your true self rather than someone who is just angling for another score. But even though marriage is a time for you to feel free, there are a few things that married men should never do. Here are four of them. 1) Get emotionally
When I was thirteen years old, I was riding my bike around the neighborhood when I saw in an alley some pieces of paper that caught my eye. I stopped my bike and bent down to pick up what turned out to be a magazine. As I took a closer look, I had my first view of one of the most destructive things in the world—porn. And you know thirteen is actually incredibly late now, right? As the availability keeps growing, the average age of first exposure keeps declining. The most conservative estimates say kids first see porn around eleven,
Masturbation addiction and pornography addiction are simply not worth it. At the end of everything, your life is simply a journey and the decisions you make are the signposts. I am sure that by now, you are aware that healthy habits are the fuel of a beautiful life – not masturbation or pornography addiction. A lot of people spend the bulk of their 20s doing things that they would later regret in their 40s. Of course, among others habits, masturbation and pornography addiction stand out! The truth is that the 20s are the new teen years. It is really your
Manliness is a dying art. See if you can relate with any of the following: Are there times when you feel your libido draining from you like the retreating waves at the shore? Do you find yourself increasing in weight in areas of your body you would rather not? Are you going through a phase of depression, mood swings, and irritability? Do you find yourself without drive or motivation to go all out and get things done? Do you find it difficult to rise up to the occasion and be a man? Do you watch porn and masturbate all too frequently?
If you are into masturbation addiction and porn long enough, there are a lot of changes that occur in your brain which would make you even better at masturbation and watching porn. When this happens, you would find out that your idle mode automatically switches to getting your pants down and watching porn. There is an equilibrium in nature and masturbation and pornography disrupts the balance in your life. Here are 14 simple things that you could be doing instead of wasting time on masturbation and pornography. 1. Making Your Room Tidy Can Stop Masturbation Addiction This might look like